Mentor San Diego Child Day Care Services in San Diego and Orange County

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 Article by: Ben Erion (Club Xcite Mentor)

Mentoring has provided me many positive experiences. Not only have I seen befits in the lives of the children I work with I have also seen the development within myself. I feel fortunate to be involved with such a wonderful program like Club Xcite!

As a mentor I try and provide a comfortable but firm fun platform from which my kids can excel. When I first started working with my kids I made every effort possible to get to know them. I wanted to understand what they liked and didn’t like so that I could use those avenues to connect with them. I wanted them to feel comfortable with me not only as a person but as a friend. I also ask them about what they think and feel. I believe it is important to have open channels of communication. I want the kids to feel like they have a say in what is going on. In my experience kids take a lot more pride in their development when it is something that they actively participate in.

Once our plan is in place I like to provide support and encouragement. I feel that positive re-enforcement and optimism is the best recipe for success. I would like to think that I am that shot of confidence that may be lacking. With these factors in place my kids have a platform from which they can try new things and grow. I want my kids to feel safe and excited about the new challenges they take on.

My goal is to show my kids that it is okay to try new things regardless of the results. I hope that they will be able to take these life lessons forward and continue to grow and develop in a positive direction.

When the results start to compile it is a wonderful thing. To see the pride in the faces of my kids after a success is something that is priceless. Whether it is learning how to ride a bike or catch the winning pass in football it doesn’t matter. The sense of accomplishment is what they take with them. From these successes my kids have been able to make friends, dispel fears, and grow as individuals.

I feel fortunate to be the one who has such a positive effect on these kids. I am touched that they allow me to be a part of their lives and their families. Not only do I teach these kids, they get to teach me. I learn the value of being patient, compassionate, and a constructive role model.

Mentoring is an experience that I value a lot. I look forward to watching my kids grow into young adults that feel good about themselves and their lives. I feel that mentoring is something that all children can benefit from. It is a great opportunity that provides endless possibilities.

What is ClubXcite?

Xcite! is dedicated to providing opportunities for individuals to grow as athletes, students, and friends. The “Xcite! Way” is the philosophy that an enjoyable teaching style translates to accelerated learning and unmatched performance. With a fun, non-competitive, and encouraging environment, motivated and well-rounded students are created who reach their utmost potential.

Personal growth
Xcite! programs offer a way for children to gain valuable social and team working skills. The “Xcite! Way” inspires students to think positively and encourages self-motivation. Instructors identify student’s strengths and weaknesses so that participants can effectively utilize natural talent while developing weaker areas. Our approach helps students become well rounded and motivated individuals.

Making friends
Sports teams and other extracurricular programs provide for a healthy environment in which students can make friends with individuals in the same community. It is our goal to provide students with a strong foundation so that they feel comfortable interacting with their new neighborhood friends both in and outside of the Xcite! program. Xcite! encourages its participants to form ad hoc teams or practice sessions so that they may build upon the skills that Xcite! has taught them.

Family oriented
Xcite! realizes the importance of building a strong family network throughout the community. Upon creating an environment where families are involved in the children’s successes and achievements, Xcite! strives to create a united and spirited community.

Investing in your child’s future
Our mentors understand what it takes to optimize performance. It is our desire for children to take the skills learned at Xcite! and translate them into measurable successes. Whether it be joining a high school team, or gaining a college scholarship, Xcite! mentors individuals who desire to be top performers.

We encourage you to contact us if you would like more information on customizing a program to match your child's needs.